Dating no desire
While Trae views sex as a major focus of their relationship, Stacy doesn’t enjoy sex.She often feels pressured by Trae sexually and wishes they had waited until marriage.She loves and trusts Drew, but can’t imagine trusting him with her body.Stacy and Trae have also been dating for a few years and are currently engaged.As you can see from these brief snippets, Chelsey, Stacy and Nicole may all be asking the same question.Yet their reasons for not feeling sexual desire are vastly different.More important is that fact that younger women are more willing to show their feminine side to win a man’s heart.
Men are not always looking for a younger body to cuddle up next to.
She wonders if she will dread sex after they get married.
Nicole is a 29-year-old and completing medical school and residency to become an oncologist.
While sexual desire and expression is an important part of marriage, we need to remember that it is not the foundation of marriage.
In I Corinthians 7, Paul cites sexual passion as a reason to get married, but it is not the primary motivation behind making a lifetime commitment to another person.